But, I wanted to know if it was possible to change the chat settings somewhere to an 18+?
I guess the current "settings" are set to my sons age, I have taken over his account and know I can create his own screen name.
On this Message Boards page, at the left side, you can login to your account. When you see your account(s), you must login with your "parental control" password on that page.
Then you will see "Account Management" with different options you may select. When you are finished, go to the bottom of that page and "close" it.